Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Second Born in Amesdale


June Alma Clarkson
Second Child Born in Amesdale

June Alma Clarkson was these  second child of European ancestry to be born in Amesdale.   She was born to Robert and Myrtle Clarkson in a sheep barn converted into a dwelling, where she was delivered by her grandmother Annie Ames, an experienced midwife.
  
June’s parents had followed Myrtle’s parents, Samuel George and Annie Eliza Ames, to Amesdale in the fall of 1933.   Bob and Myrtle lived in Amesdale for about four years, just long enough for June to be born on June 21, 1934.  The family returned to Manitoba where Robert became a Rawleigh dealer. 

June writes a touching tribute to her mother, whom she said was happiest when serving others.



Memories of her Mother, 
Myrtle Ames Clarkson
by June Clarkson Sobieski
Dated May 2008

"My Mom’s life was one of sacrifice and service to others.  She was a Godly woman who loved Jesus. 

She had a hard life, being the third child and eldest daughter of the 10 children born to Sam and Annie Ames.  The winter she was eleven years old her Dad took her out of school to cook in the bush camp, as Grandma was ill and busy with younger children.  She used to laugh and say she stood on a stool to knead bread for them.   After growing up she often wondered what the bread was like, but said the men never complained. 

Mom married at age 18, and I was the fourth and last child, arriving 11 years behind the rest.
I remember Mom playing our old pump organ by ear and we’d sing the good old hymns by the hour. She made all my clothes, sometimes designing patterns out of old newspapers.   I’d look through the catalogue and pick out a style I liked, then Mom would make the pattern and sew it for me.  I got my first store-bought coat after Mom took sick when I was 17. 

Mom had a keen sense of humour and much patience and wisdom and she was always read you listen and give good advice.  She taught me to knit, crochet and quilt.

Nightly prayer and devotions were special, with Mom reading by the light of the Coleman lamp.  She never had electricity or modern conveniences.  Hydro came in the early 50’s.  Our home was wired and we waited weeks for the hydro workers to come and hook us to the power.   Mom died at 5am.  and that morn at 8:30am, they came and hooked us up.  But Mom never lived to see it.

Mom nursed Dad’s Mom until Grandma died.   Then when I was eight Dad’s spinster sister Aunt Hattie came, to live with us for two years.  My sister married at 18 and moved to Dauphin.  At age 20 she had her first baby, and died in the Dauphin hospital with pneumonia. This devastated Mom and Dad.  They brought the baby boy home and raised him as their own.  My sister’s husband kind of went off and made a new life for himself, so Mom and Dad had full care and responsibility for Bobby.
  
When Bobby was four Grandma and Grandpa came to live with us.  Grandma had had a stroke and was in a wheel chair.  She needed lifting in and out of bed and everywhere.  With Dad away at work, me in school, and Grandpa feeble, all the lifting fell to Mom.  After five years Grandma died.  Shortly after that Mom got stomach cancer.  She had  two-thirds of her stomach removed.  She lived two more years and I stayed home, took over the house, and nursed her and Grandpa who were bedfast by then.  I had to give Mom morphine needles every 4 hours as there was no home nursing back then.  Mom never complained that I hurt her.  She’d often ask me to sing and play “Where the Roses Never Fade”.

A cousin of Mom’s, Annie Tanner Charles, came to help me the last month.  She was a great spiritual support for our family, as well as physical and emotional support.

Mom never complained or felt sorry for herself.  She just worried how we would manage, when she was gone and so concerned about Bobby who was 8 years old by then.  She tried to advise and prepare us.

She slipped into a comma December 17th.  Jesus came for her December 18th, 1952.   Just before here last breath she opened her eyes for the first time in two days, looked up, smiled, and said "Jesus".   We knew He had come for her and she was peacefully resting in his arms."